teaching black girls

I think the group did a very nice job today. I was thinking more about muses after class and whether it should matter on the gender. I came to the decision that it should be on an individual basis. I have a much easier time relating to guys than girls and there are some girls who relate better to girls than guys. I think this is partially because I've had so many bad experiences with girls. I've gotten in so many fights with girls over nothing that I've grown tired of it. I like how guys are there to listen but generally won't start a fight over it if you disagree. A muse should be there to offer guidence and support and shouldn't matter on gender. Whoever you feel comfortable with should be your muse. I mean, each muse generally does something different for you. My mom and my calc teacher are completely different and offer different views and stories/experience. I go to them for different things and I think that is how it should be. You shouldn't put limits on yourself on who you can and cannot get close to. I do agree that muses are very important and are basically a necessity in life. They, like I said earlier, offer guidence and support and can help to keep one focused and positive about situations and goals. All in all, whoever you find is someone that can offer you these things and are there for you, is generally a good thing.